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	<title>David Malmborg &#187; Dilemma</title>
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		<title>Dilemma: Giving Advice</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I give advice. I give suggestions. I give support. I give ideas. However, it has recently come to my attention that not everyone appreciates how openly I give. Does this surprise me? Why, YES IT DOES! The Dilemma So my dilemma for today is this: Is there a way to determine who I should and [...]]]></description>
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<p>I give advice. I give suggestions. I give support. I give ideas.</p>
<p>However, it has recently come to my attention that not everyone appreciates how openly I give. Does this surprise me? Why, YES IT DOES!</p>
<h3>The Dilemma</h3>
<p>So my dilemma for today is this: <strong>Is there a way to determine who I should and shouldn&#8217;t give advice too?</strong></p>
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<li>Does it matter their personality type?</li>
<li>Does it matter whether they are management or subordinate in my relationship with them?</li>
<li>Is gender an issue?</li>
<li>Or does it just depend on the individual, and I shouldn&#8217;t care if they don&#8217;t want to hear it, I should give it to them anyways? (my current view point)</li>
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<p>As always, I know &#8220;Depends&#8221; is going to want to be said. I also know that timing may be the key to everything. However, with out those factors involved what else should be determined? </p>
<h3>I&#8217;m a Communications Major For Cryin&#8217; Out Loud</h3>
<p>Human relationships have always been a fascination of mine, particularly human communication methods. So I am genuinely interested in what you have to say on the topic. Later this week (I promise), I&#8217;ll give you my in depth take on the topic.</p>
<p>Thanks for participating,<br />
DRM2</p>
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